This past Saturday, Erwin and I went to New Jersey to drop off Gio at my parents house. Gio did extremely well on the drive- he slept more than half the way, and after he woke up, he was really calm in his seat. Originally we were going to come back Sunday night, but we decided to come back Monday morning so that way Gio could warm up easily to my family and their home.
It has been a little harder than I thought it would be to have him away from me, but at the same time it makes me so happy that he’s spending time with my parents and my family in New Jersey. I know for a fact that he’s being spoiled with so much attention and so much love.
I’m actually very proud of how well he’s doing. When we were in New Jersey with him, he warmed up quickly to everyone and he stayed playful with everyone once we left. We had some minor issues when I would drop him off my sister-in-laws house, like nonstop crying, so I was concerned but there hasn’t been any problems at all. He sleeps really well and he’s been eating extremely well too. I’m really proud of how he’s done, and I might just do this annually so he gets to spend that time with my parents which to me is really important.
Now, as for me, it’s just been really strange not having him with me. I miss him a lot. Having him away from me and him not being under my care has opened my eyes up to things. It’s made me realize how I care way too much about little things, while all he wants and needs is me to be there sitting on the floor just playing or running around with him. I can put cleaning aside, cooking aside, even my studies aside for a little to fulfill his wish of just having me there next to him.
Today is my first day on my own. Erwin went back to work, so I decided to jump on here and write before I start studying for my final Biology exam. He gets out a little earlier today so I’m excited to just hangout with him and watch a movie.
Giovanni turned 11 months yesterday! Meaning we’re a month away from his 1st birthday. It is so bittersweet to me. It breaks my heart a little because it feels like not that long ago he was this tiny baby that couldn’t even roll over. Now he’s this baby that wants to walk on his own already and talks to his favorite characters.
We’re planning on celebrating Gio’s birthday in New Jersey. For those who don’t know or don’t remember, I was born and raised there so all my family is located there. Because of the distance, we see my parents once a month or two months. The rest of family we see even less so Erwin and I think it’d be nice to celebrate Gio’s birthday over there because although they’re hours away, my family is very supportive.
Do we have a theme? Erwin wants it to be Paw Patrol since Gio likes that show although I’d prefer Bubble Guppies ’cause he seems to like that more lol. We’re not doing anything big. Just small and simple at my parents house with lots of food and decorations. Then the following day we’ll all go to FunPlex and have some fun there before we head back home to Maryland.
Before his birthday we’re planning a trip to NJ this coming weekend, but we’re not 100% sure if it will happen. If so, I’ll definitely create a post all about the road trip and just the trip in general.
We’ve taken Gio over there a couple times already and he hasn’t sensed the difference between each home yet, but now that he’s older and more aware we think he might. Guess we’ll see!
Thanks for reading, guys! xoxo
My boyfriend and I made a trip to D.C. to see the cherry blossom trees and let me tell you- they’re beautiful! Unfortunately they haven’t fully blossomed yet, but they’re on their way and already so stunning. If you’re in the area, live close by, or can make a trip to visit I recommend you definitely do so. I’m positive the Cherry Blossom festival started this past weekend and goes until the 9th of April so you guys should definitely try and find your way there- you won’t regret it!
Now, I read there are trees spread around the district, but my boyfriend and I spent time walking around the Tidal Bassin (where the festival is located). There was a pretty decent crowd of people so I can only imagine on the weekend and really nice days.
Here’s a little background for you guys: the trees are beautiful to admire and go take pictures with, but for many who may not know, they also have a true significance to them. In the Japenese culture they represent the fragility and beauty of life, but also how sadly short life can be.
Being around such beauty reminded me how to appreciate every single moment to the fullest because in a second everything can be gone. It might have been one of the first times these past few months I didn’t complain about walking a lot, lol.